It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out partying for girls. Having a great conversation with a girl you are interested in is always the goal when out with the guys. Its only a matter of time before you see the girl that grabs your attention. Now you try to find the courage to talk to her and her group of friends shes with. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn’t seem right though.

All her friends are very approachable but the girl you were focusing on isn’t giving you much action to work with.

Dont fret. It’s not that she isn’t into you or that you aren’t her type. By focusing on her you gave her the ego boost she needed to sort of play hard to get with you.

She gets the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn’t want to lose her value her friends see her so she doesn’t respond as some girl who’s easy. She’d rather keep her value with her friends than show her interest in you.

She’d rather keep her respect with her girlfriends than show her interest in you. The solution? Use what is called, the Deflection Theory! It is important to note that this tip comes from Tiffany Taylors Guy Gets Girl ebook.

The Deflection Theory is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that energy onto one or more of her girlfriends. By doing so you stop giving her the attention she was getting and is going to start to wonder why you arent giving that attention anymore to her.

The fact that you arent showing her any love now she is going to start to wonder whats wrong with her. She is going to try to now get your interest back, which is what you’ll gladly take. See how the guy gets the girl with this?

This is a great technique to bring a challenge to a girl. Girls are intrigued by challenges and welcome them. Use the Deflection Technique to bring more success to your dating scene…